Might I just say, like Kelly Clarkson's song says, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!"
Now, I know I may not know you, or what you are going through, nor the extent of it and what it has done to you. However, I do know you are not alone, there are others out there who have experienced similar, if not the same, thing you are going through or have gone through.
Trying to overcome or withstand or work your way through this crisis will take time and EFFORT. You might want to try and see the situation from a different standpoint, look at it from another family member's or peers' eyes. By doing this you can see the situation from possibly a better view and can evaluate and solve it.
One of the tips I learned this week were to take responsibility, not to blame the situation on someone, but to recognize that it is there and that you have part in it and that there is something you can do about it. I know people who just "play victim" and try to wallow in their sorrow to in the end attain attention and they don't progress. That doesn't make you stronger. No, to become strong from a trial that could "kill" some aspect of your life is to face it and to improve and overcome, well, that takes ACTION!
I know it is hard, but you have your family around you to help, overcome a grudge those who do love you, you never know, they might have gone through the same thing, or perhaps are going through the same thing.
:)
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